Mid-week post
Jan 11
Well, in the past few days, our families have said goodbye to two incredible individuals. Please allow me the opportunity to share something about them. These men were not simply fathers, husbands, brothers, and friends. They were examples, role models, standards, living illustrations for the rest of us. Their love of God, family, and community were the things that drove them. With over 120 years of marriage combined, their devotion and love endured throughout their lives. The underlying character that guided them was one of sacrifice. They knew that to give of themselves was the greatest gift they had. Each of them strived to help others, to teach others, and to support others.
They were driven by the guiding principles which our generations are struggling with. Their generation saw these principles as unwavering. They weren’t things to pick and choose, but things to hold dear and cherish. I am not singling out our youth, I’m encouraging them to look to this generation and learn from their legacy. I think it is possible that the next generations are searching for these very principles which if found can guide them to a stronger more secure future. I saw in these men the things that can turn around a trend that has us spiraling out of control. I saw in these men the ideals and traits that can save the next generation just as it did theirs. They struggled, scrapped, worked, fought, and loved to save their families, country and so much more.
I hope to honor these two men as I live on. These aren’t the only men who possess these characteristics, but they are two who have displayed them with honor and integrity. Serving country, raising families, supporting their church are all attributes which guided them. Please consider this… never did “self” enter their equation. The generation they represent is one we can learn much from. Hope drives us to look for ways that our next generations will find similar characteristics as desirable and worthy of re-visiting.
Thank you for allowing me to use this venue to honor them. They were fantastic husbands, fathers, brothers and friends. But more, they were living examples for how to live a life for God, family and community. Thank you for that example, Joseph L. Hendricks, Jr. and William J. Evans, Jr. God’s speed. If you have members of this generation still living, cherish them. But if you can, spend some time with them, inquire of them, learn from them. They have much to share, worthy of our attention.
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January 14th, 2012 at 12:52 pm
Yeah – so… My brother Gerry scooped me by a couple days and used all the words I wanted to use!
I couldn’t agree more, though. – most especially with the idea that I know you and Melanie, and YOUR lives are the legacy of these men. I also have had the privilege to know your children… and THEIR lives reflect you two – and the one-ness you two have commited to, through Jesus, in your marriage and day-to-day life. I doubt if either Josh or Katy are unsure of either of your commitment to Jesus, to the Church, to family, to them as your kids, or to each other.
I thank God for the lives of these two men and how I, and others, have been blessed through their legacy!
Let’s remember these men are in the “cloud of witnesses” and keep running the race together, bro!! (Heb 12:1)
January 12th, 2012 at 4:04 pm
John,
They are being honored. And will be tonight as I read this post to a group of men that seek desperately to live our lives as an example to the next generations. Our hearts cry out for a change but the response we hear is clear – we must be the generation that teaches those younger than us what “authentic” looks like.
One of the most valuable lessons we have learned in our group is that there is immeasurable value in the advice that comes from those who have “been there, done that”. I did not know your uncle or Melanie’s Dad, but I know both of you, and your children. That alone is enough to make me know that there are families that are willing to say “no” to the sweeping currents of today’s society and “yes” to the living water of Christ.
May God continue to bless you richly,
Gerry
P.S. Don’t forget to check in with God!